April 14, 2025

Disruption Isn’t Leadership—It’s Just Disruption

 Disruption Isn’t Leadership—It’s Just Disruption

Inspired by Adam Grant’s NYT op-ed on the myth of fear-based leadership

We love a bold leader. Someone who breaks the mold, says the unsayable, and pushes boundaries. But here’s the catch: being disruptive doesn’t automatically make someone effective.


In his recent New York Times op-ed, leading organizational psychologist and management scholar Adam Grant issues a wake-up call about today’s obsession with harsh, “fearless” leadership. He points to Elon Musk—often regarded as brilliant and ambitious, and increasingly held up as a model for what it means to be a strong leader. But as Grant makes clear, Musk’s tendency to belittle, intimidate, and fire en masse doesn’t make people better—it makes teams weaker. The data - from hundreds of studies involving over 150,000 people - is clear: fear doesn’t fuel performance. It drains it.


Grant’s piece reminded me of another classic case: basketball coach Bobby Knight. A coaching legend at Indiana, Knight built a legacy at least partly on discipline and rage. His sideline tantrums were infamous, his treatment of players often demeaning. Eventually, it caught up to him—costing him jobs, players, and trust.


Compare that to his protégé, Mike Krzyzewski of Duke. “Coach K” learned under Knight, but took a very different path. He emphasized respect, relationships, and loyalty. And while he didn’t shy away from tough conversations, he earned his players’ best through connection, not coercion. The results? Five national championships, 13 appearances in the “Final Four”, and decades of sustained excellence.


Even Steve Jobs eventually got the memo. Early in his career, Jobs burned bridges with his ego and intensity. But after being ousted from Apple, he came back humbler, wiser, and more human. As Grant notes, it was the changed Jobs—still driven, but now empathetic—who helped build Apple into the company we know today.

Here’s the bottom line: Disruption isn’t a leadership style. It’s a tactic. And it only works when it's aimed at systems, not people.


Three things to remember:

  1. Respect is not weakness. Demanding excellence doesn’t require demeaning people. Leaders can set high bars andbe decent.
  2. Fear wears thin. People might tolerate a toxic genius—but they won’t follow one forever. The best talent leaves when the culture turns.
  3. Long-term wins come from trust. Whether you’re coaching a team or running a company, loyalty and belief go further than intimidation.


Disruption might grab headlines, but trust builds legacies. Let’s lead accordingly.

April 9, 2025

Is Your Hybrid Team Still Engaged?

 

Is Your Hybrid Team Still Engaged? Warning Signs and What to Do About Them

Hybrid work has moved from novelty to normal, reshaping how teams communicate, collaborate, and connect. But with this shift comes a new leadership challenge: how do you know if your hybrid team is still truly engaged? When you're not seeing people in the hallway or reading body language in meetings, it’s easier than ever for disengagement to fly under the radar.

 

Plenty of research shows that hybrid teams are, in general, as productive (if not more so) than their in-person counterparts. But even if everything seems fine on the surface, your team might be quietly checking out. Spotting the early signs—and knowing how to respond—can help you re-engage your team before the damage becomes harder to reverse.


Why Hybrid Teams Are Especially Vulnerable to Disengagement

Hybrid models blur the lines between visibility and presence. When team members work from different locations, day-to-day interactions tend to become more transactional. The casual check-ins and shared moments that build camaraderie can fade without deliberate effort.

It’s also easy for remote employees to feel disconnected or overlooked, especially if key decisions and interactions happen in the office. One manager shared how a normally high-performing team began missing deadlines—not due to capability, but because remote members felt out of the loop and stopped contributing proactively. The issue wasn’t productivity—it was a slow erosion of engagement.

It's easy to suggest that the answer to this is to demand that everyone return to the office full-time, but that eliminates the autonomy and flexibility many workers say improve both their home and work lives. So how do you diagnose and improve your hybrid team?


Five Warning Signs Your Hybrid Team Is Losing Engagement

1. Drop in Participation or Energy During Meetings
If your once-lively team meetings now feel like a one-way broadcast, it’s a red flag. People keeping cameras off, rarely speaking up, or multitasking during calls often signal disengagement. One manager noticed their weekly check-ins had turned into 80% monologue with very little discussion—a shift from earlier, more interactive sessions.

2. Delayed Responses and Minimal Communication
When Slack goes quiet and emails go unanswered, it may not be just busyness—it could be a sign that team members are tuning out. While communication rhythms naturally ebb and flow, a consistent drop in responsiveness warrants attention.

3. Decline in Proactive Behavior
Engaged team members volunteer ideas, anticipate issues, and offer solutions. When that stops, and team members simply “check the box,” it might mean they’re disengaging mentally—even if they’re still technically doing the job.

4. Increased Mistakes or Missed Deadlines
Disengagement can manifest as careless errors or delayed work. While these issues may appear performance-related, they’re often rooted in a loss of motivation or clarity.

5. Withdrawal from Optional or Social Activities
When people stop showing up for non-mandatory team events—virtual coffee chats, knowledge-sharing sessions, or casual Slack channels—it might indicate they’re no longer invested in the team’s social fabric.


How to Re-Engage a Hybrid Team

1. Rebuild Personal Connection
Relationships are the foundation of engagement. Prioritize regular 1:1 check-ins that go beyond status updates. Ask open-ended questions like, “What’s been energizing you lately?” or “How are you really doing?” These moments create space for trust and candid conversations. Remember that 1:1 check-ins are not just for information sharing, they function to (re)build the personal connection between you and your team members. So try to schedule them for when you are both in the office. If that can’t be done, use a “rich” medium like a phone or video call (as opposed to a text or a Teams chat).

2. Reclarify Purpose and Impact
Remind your team why their work matters. Connecting individual tasks to broader company goals or customer outcomes can reignite motivation. A quick “Here’s how your work made a difference this week” can go a long way. Former team expert Richard Hackman, of Harvard University, used to say that one of the critical underlying pieces of successful team design was a “Compelling Purpose” – a clear, shared statement of what the task was and why it was important. This needs to be shared upfront with every team, but remember to take time to remind your team of this throughout their work.

3. Level the Playing Field Between Remote and In-Office Staff
Ensure remote team members have equal access to information, opportunities, and visibility. Use shared digital tools for collaboration, rotate meeting facilitators, and avoid making key decisions in hallway conversations. Research shows that a critical source of conflict in hybrid teams is when “fault lines” develop between those who are full-time in the main office and those who are part-time or full-time at a remote location. Make sure that those who aren’t in the building are being systematically, but unintentionally, excluded.

4. Create Safe Spaces for Feedback
If people are disengaged, they may not feel safe saying so. Use anonymous pulse surveys or team retrospectives to invite honest feedback. The key: don’t just listen—act on what you hear. When you collect this feedback, start by sharing it with the team. Ask for clarification, suggestions on what actions you could take, and what actions should be prioritized. 

5. Celebrate Wins and Small Progress
Recognition fuels momentum. Celebrate contributions both big and small, and make sure remote and in-person team members feel equally seen. A quick shout-out during a meeting or a thank-you message on a shared channel reinforces that their work is valued. This is something that everyone on the team can (and should) do, no matter their position – but once a team leader starts doing this it is easier for it to become the norm.

In every team, hybrid or not, engagement isn’t static—it needs regular tending. Team leaders who stay tuned into subtle shifts and act early are better positioned to keep their teams motivated, connected, and productive.

If you’re noticing signs of disengagement, don’t wait. A few small, intentional moves can spark meaningful change—and remind your team that they’re seen, supported, and essential to the mission.

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